Dialogue need to fill in more detailed information about t | Page 76
love & lust
with simultaneous orgasms in an
outdoor shower—think Hollywood
movie sex. But guess what? Studies
indicate that only about 15 percent of
women (compared with 75 percent of
men) experience desire this way. So
instead, focus on responsive desire,
which you two generate yourselves.
Plan a night in to blast The Weeknd,
make fancy cocktails, and dance really
close—and let it lead to bedroom high
notes that last all, um, weeknd.
2
ReSOLuTION 2
Get YourS!
Yeah, it’s good to be a giver, but too
often, we put our partner’s pleasure
before our own. So, no more of that
this year. Instead, prioritise your own
orgasm with these bold moves.
Make Oral Even Hotter
The next time he’s going downtown,
encourage him to insert his fingers
and slowly stroke inside you while you
shift your hips to guide his tongue to
just the right spot. This blended-O
bliss event will change your life.
tRY it!
The
20-MINuTe
MAKe-OuT
Set a timer, and
challenge yourselves to
spend a full 20 minutes
kissing. This move
increases your desire—in
less time than it takes to
wait for a new Candy
Crush life! Start by
nibbling on his upper,
then lower lip. Take your
tongue and trace his
mouth, then move slowly
down his body with
nothing but lip action—
and have him do the
same to you. By the time
the buzzer goes off, you’ll
both be wild with lust.
Give Yourself the Finger
In missionary, keep your legs bent
underneath your thighs while he
enters you at the perfect G-spot-
loving angle. In this uplifting position,
you’ll have open access to rub your
clitoris in small circles with the pads of
your pointer and middle fingers as he
grinds.
3
ReSOLuTION 3
PuSH Your BoundarieS
Dabble in Domination
Finally, a from-behind position where
you’re in control. While he lies on his
back, straddle him, facing his feet,
and get on all fours. Back it up until
he’s inside you, then move at your
desired pace. Your G-spot gets some
serious stimulation—and he gets to
enjoy the view.
76
COSMOPOLITAN jAnuARy 2017
Plan a Sultry Surprise
The next time he picks you up for
date night, greet him at the door in
nothing but your bra and panties or
just a bath towel, and let him know
that you still need a few more minutes
to get ready. Your restaurant rezzie
can totally wait...
FOR MORE GREAT STORIES, VISIT cOSMO.In
Get a Little Freaky
Blindfold him with something you
already have in your house—a scarf,
his tie, your cami—and trace your
fingers all along his body until he’s all
warmed up. Every minute that goes
by will build his anticipation for when
you finally remove it and let him see
your sexy self.
Being adventurous in bed can make you two feel like primal pioneers, conquering new territories (aka each other!).
Research shows that frequent sex-ploration enhances your connection.