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ReSOLuTION 4
BooSt Your
BedrooM
Bond
When it comes to upping your coital
connection, there are two ways you
and your guy can go....
LOW-KEY
Ride the Couch—Then Him
Your only mission is to watch TV with
your boo. Yep! A study in the Journal of
Social and Personal Relationships says
that couples who don’t have the same
friends group reported more satisfying
relationships when they shared TV
shows, books, and movies. While you
cuddle, binge on a show that neither of
you has seen. Research also indicates that
sharing new experiences brings you
closer, so go ahead and dive into that
weird doc about how octopuses mate.
Just don’t be surprised if he can’t control
his own tentacles around you later!
HIGH-KEY
Try a Trickier-Than-Normal Move
When you’re in your usual GOT (that’s
girl-on-top, not Game of Thrones, ha!)
and you feel him about to climax, guide
him towards the edge of the mattress.
Let his arms and head dangle off the
side of the bed while you get back to
grinding. Not only will you feel like the
queen of his personal Westeros, the
extra rush of blood to his head will also
give him a full-body experience. It’s a
skill-requiring maneuver that’ll have you
high-fiving at your naughty teamwork.
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The YeAR
Of YOuR O
Go ahead, be selfish
in bed. Tell him how
you like to be touched
with positive
reinforcements, like
‘Just like that’ or ‘I love
it when you touch me
there’ or if you’re
feeling bold, ‘My turn...’
Men love a little
direction, and you get
to have the kind of sex
you want. Win-win!
ReSOLuTION 5
Master the art of dirty talk
Text Him an Emoji Brainteaser
Go with this exact sequence:
+ + + +
and then type “Figure out the riddle...
It’s what I want you to do to me
tonight.” Okay, so he might only
compute the melons part, but his
.
brain will be all
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Send Him a Hot Voice Memo
...But be sure to cut it off just as
you’re about to say the sexy stuff, like
this: ‘I was in the shower and started
thinking about that hot thing you did
the other day, and I swear I got so...’
The anticipation will drive him
completely insane.
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Unleash Your Inner Sex Kitten
Admit it...she’s been dying to
come out. An easy way to let her
shine? Play a game of show and tell.
Say to him, ‘I’ve been thinking about
you doing this to me all day,’ then
guide his hands exactly where you
n
want them.
Try these stress-free scripts that are steamy, not scary.